This is a great reminder!
I cannot tell you how many times people I have known, mistakenly made assumptions, and people have made inaccurate assumptions about me because of the way I appear or something someone else has said. How many times have you heard something about someone and assumed the third-party speaker is telling the truth, only to find out later they were stretching, manipulating, or completely lying about the truth? Or a story is shared by someone who thinks they are telling a true story, but who in fact, are passing along an untrue rumor.
It’s always best to ask questions and communicate directly with the actual person involved in any situation, not a third-party, before making assumptions. I know that sounds obvious, but we all need a reminder now and then, right?
Good communication is pivotal in the success of our close relationships. Unfortunately, some people are not strong enough to be honest and direct about their thoughts and feelings and behave in a passive aggressive manner, which leads to festering negativity. Even if one person in a relationship is following the above advice, sometimes you still have to close the door and walk away when the other person cannot honestly and openly communicate. Sad, but true. At least you can honestly say you gave it your all, if you follow the above advice!
HOPE & PRAY YOU WERE BLESSED *
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